One of the world’s most visible advocates for medical research recently wrote an article sharing her childhood experiences in foster care and aging out of the system.
Dr. Claire Pomeroy, President of the Lasker Foundation – which awards the respected Lasker Prizes to the world’s leading clinical and basic medical researchers each year – published a piece in The Huffington Post urging all Americans to do what they can to support foster youth.
Here is an excerpt:
Beating the odds
I was lucky. People cared enough to make the foster care system work for me. Foster homes took care of me, teachers supported me – and I was white, middle class and educated. As I went through the system, I saw children who were not as fortunate … who were failed by the system and society. They were robbed of their ideals, gave up hope and struggled to find a reason to live.
I experienced the unconscionable reality that society too easily creates “throw away children,” especially if they are poor, disabled, of a minority race or ethnicity, immigrants or gay, among others. There are so many foster youth and at-risk young adults who need help. As individuals, communities and a nation, it is our responsibility to ensure that all children have the opportunity to pursue their dreams so that they have the chance to lead happy, healthy and fulfilling lives.
The U.S. needs an adequate foster care system to save neglected, abandoned and abused children – and society needs to grasp the scope of challenges that foster youth face throughout their lives as well as the different ways we can extend a helping hand. When young adults are on their own again after exiting foster care, they need complete medical and social services to help them navigate new challenges in transitioning to adulthood. Foster youth cannot beat the odds without hope, compassion and support.
The greatness of a society is defined by how it treats its most vulnerable members. By this measure, the U.S. is failing and the cost comes in wasted talent and unfulfilled potential among foster youth. Each of us must care enough to save children one at a time and change the systems to ensure that all children are saved.
I offer three insights from my foster care experience to help each of us as we reach out to foster youth.
- Foster children need more than physical shelter; they need emotional shelter to help heal the damage that they have experienced. The youth we try to help may be too untrusting and self-protective to accept us – we must keep trying.
- Foster care parents, mentors, tutors and advocates have enormous impact on children who have never experienced an adult’s kindness and generosity in sharing the wisdom that they have accumulated. Your time can change a child’s life.
- Foster care systems must be expanded and improved, yet so must school systems to provide foster youth with access to the wonderful world of knowledge and skills. And foster youth must have job opportunities so they can support themselves to get to college and pursue careers.
Do the right thing
The future of foster youths depends on their spirit, belief in themselves and sense of realistic opportunities. It depends on us sharing our time, knowledge and resources – and hearts. I believe the path to progress is guided by a simple credo that is too often ignored – “just do the right thing.”
I urge everyone to look beyond ourselves, reach out to vulnerable members of the community, and come together to create a brighter future for everyone. Now is the time for the nation – and society – to truly care about foster youth. It is time to stop forcing children to be the heroes of their own survival.
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